The Truth About :: Life After College

I've been out of college for 5 years, and I'm just now finding my footing, my great job, the nice car, a decent wardrobe, and trips to London. I'm still renting a regular apartment with crappy management, but I'm saving for the dream loft. And guess what?? I'm a typical 26 year old!
One of the biggest myth's about college is that a degree is your key to a big pile-o-cash and the corner office with a wet bar. A degree simply gives you more options, and that's about it. There's still a dark and windy road ahead that leads to the day where you're sitting on the couch watching The Breakfast Club and think...Wow, I've finally made it.
The Dark and Windy Road has widely become known as the "Quarter-Life Crisis". It sounds a bit like this:
"What am I to do with my life?! I graduated college in 2005 and still feel lost. I got a job a couple months after graduating. The job was very stressful and they didn't pay well, at all. The stress was too much and I had a hard time building up my confidence for the business world when I knew nothing about it. They put me in as an admin assistant...So there went my confidence completely." (Excerpt from The Quarterlife Crisis message board)
There are so many uncontrollable factors that determine your success in the corporate world that it takes years to learn to maneuver and find your niche. I think the new stats show that college graduates will have 8 jobs before they're 30! The best advice is to look at your twenties as the decade of trial and error. Most grads will not use their degree. Crossword Puzzling may have sounded like a great major and may have even been the hottest new job out there when you signed up for it, but the market changes constantly. Your dreams and interests will as well. Just learn to go with it.
If you're not happy with your current position, then get a different one! The perfect time to look for a job is when you already have one. This allows you time to be picky and only accept positions that are in line with what you really want. Perfect example...I got my dream job at a Marketing company as an Account Planner one year after I graduated. I just knew that Marketing was my calling. Once I was in the environment, I realized that the industry was much too cut throat for me and that I needed to find not only a different job, but a company that was a better fit for me and my personality. I had to move on, and build a different dream.
This blog isn't about how to avoid the dark and windy road, but just to let you know that it's there and it aint going anywhere any time soon. Just being aware of it makes things a lot less scary and almost tolerable.
Visit The Quarterlife Crisis site if you're already too far lost and need to know that you're not the only one wandering around aimlessly through life after college.






